Welcome to Marc Addison Identity & Clarity Coach
Something that defined you has changed and now you don’t feel steady inside
I help people rebuild self-trust, clarity, and direction after a major life transition — divorce, redundancy, relocation, or the loss of a role that once anchored their identity — so they can move forward grounded, confident, and without second-guessing themselves.
Life moved on. But part of you hasn’t caught up yet.
When something that anchored your identity ends like a role, a marriage, a place, a version of who you were, the groundlessness that follows isn’t weakness, it’s a recognisable disruption. I help people rebuild self-trust and move forward without second-guessing themselves.
WHAT BRINGS PEOPLE HERE
“I don’t feel unsettled about the change itself. I feel unsettled about who I am now.”
— a pattern I hear from almost everyone
“It was supposed to feel like relief. Instead it feels like I’ve lost my footing.”
Unsettled and unsure who you are since things changed
Hesitant to make decisions you used to trust yourself with
Restless, even when you know you shouldn’t be
Caught between not wanting the old life — and not knowing what replaces it
WHAT’S ACTUALLY HAPPENING
This isn’t a confidence issue. Or a motivation problem.
When something you built your identity around ends such as a role, a marriage, a home, a chapter of life, your nervous system loses orientation.
It wasn’t just a job, or just a relationship.
It gave you structure, belonging, and a clear answer to the question of who you are.
When it ends, that anchor disappears.
Clarity feels forced. You can’t think your way to certainty when the foundation hasn’t steadied.
Decisions feel heavy. Options that should feel easy become laden with second-guessing.
Every option feels slightly wrong. Not because the options are wrong — because you haven’t yet reconnected with yourself.
Why Identity Loss Has Four Distinct Layers
Most people experiencing this are dealing with four specific disruptions at once, and most approaches only address one or two of them.
The Identity Stability Model works across all four:
Role: the loss of the structure and purpose a role, relationship, or life stage provided
Competence: the uncertainty about where your skills and value fit now
Belonging: the severing from the people, culture, or community you were part of
Meaning: the quiet disappearance of what made your days feel worthwhile
HOW THE WORK UNFOLDS
Not reinvention.
Restoration.
I don’t push you toward a new identity or rush you into a next chapter. Instead, we work to understand what that chapter gave you psychologically, release what no longer serves you, and restore the internal stability needed to choose what comes next.
01 UNDERSTAND
We identify what that chapter gave you psychologically and what its absence has disrupted.
02 RELEASE
We work to release patterns and identities that are no longer accurate or useful.
03 RECONNECT
You reconnect with a grounded, current sense of who you are — outside of the role.
04 MOVE FORWARD
From that stable ground, you choose what comes next — with confidence, not uncertainty.
The Clarity Reset Session
If your internal compass feels off, this is the place to start.
In a single 90-minute session, we will:
- Identify what disrupted your sense of self-trust
- Clarify why you feel stuck now
- Reduce the mental noise and overthinking
- Establish one grounded next step that feels right
- This is not therapy.
- It’s not ongoing coaching.
- It’s a focused reset when your internal anchor has shifted.
Investment: £125
The Identity Reset
For when the disruption runs deeper and you don’t want to revisit this again in six months. A structured, defined process with a clear beginning and end — designed to restore stability at its root.”
- Stabilise your internal ground
- Rebuild decision confidence
- Clarify a realistic, aligned next chapter
- Leave grounded, clear, and without second-guessing yourself
Client Success Stories
Real experiences, real transformations. See how hypnotherapy and coaching have made a difference for others just like you.
Start by restoring your internal stability.
Then choose your next chapter from solid ground.
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